A Matter Of Respect
Posted in Politics at 14:00 on 10 November 2009
Jacqui Janes, mother of a British soldier killed in Afghanistan, has been in the news because a letter she received from Gordon Brown apparently misspelled her dead son’s name and, she is quoted as saying, was, “hastily scrawled,” forbye.
Just one thought. Who does she think she is?
She received a letter of condolence from the Prime Minister. Hand written, no less.
I appreciate that in her grief she may not have been in an accommodating frame of mind. But…
The letter wasn’t delegated to a minion. It wasn’t typed or word processed.
Does she imagine for a moment that Lloyd George or Winston Churchill personally wrote a letter of condolence to every member of the armed forces killed on their watches? I very much doubt Margaret Thatcher did so for each soldier, sailor or airman killed in the Falklands.
So who exactly is disrespecting whom? Whatever anyone thinks of Gordon Brown as PM the man is in an exacting job with many demands on his time.
If I had received such a letter I’d be grateful that he’d taken time from his schedule to even think to do so. The mere fact he wrote it shows he was thinking about her loss.
Btw: If I had a penny for every time my name had been misspelled – or mispronounced – I would be a very rich man indeed. I’m sure the same could be said for Ms Janes.
I almost feel like enjoining her to grow up.
It is desperately sad that her personal tragedy has been diminished by a sordid descent into PM bashing.
As it is, I cannot escape the notion that she has been used. And that is the real disgrace. A gross disrespect to her son by those who used her, much more so than a mere misspelling of his name.
Tags: Gordon Brown, Jacqui Janes, letter of condolence, Politics

bigrab
13 November 2009 at 20:28
Excellent posting Jack, I couldn’t agree more.